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sun racer

Joined: 6/5/2009

Well from my perspective it's kinda like a blank sheet of paper! Other than what is posted in a profile neither party knows the other . Most cases it's the man who is going to make the first attempt at a conversation, and all he has to go on is what a woman has posted in their profile.
Now Im not one to cast stones but ...a lot of times there isnt much to go on.
I am for sure very very new at this, so Im filtering through the BS too!
I ask myself the same questions. What is a good introduction to someone you've never met? So I just try to pick out a few points from the profile that attracted me to that individual and I comment on thase things and , yes I keep it breif. If I get a response well thats great!!
Good thread btw

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nighthowl50

Joined: 9/28/2005

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sounds to me you are on the right track

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anonymous1

Joined: 8/15/2008


sun racer

Well from my perspective it's kinda like a blank sheet of paper! Other than what is posted in a profile neither party knows the other . Most cases it's the man who is going to make the first attempt at a conversation, and all he has to go on is what a woman has posted in their profile.


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I like what Sun Racer said.



Your profile is full of personality.

And you have put time into making who you are, and what you like known.

But, your primary picture, and quote are what most people respond to.


"Girls just want to have fun" , and alot of cleavage is the first impression you make.


You never get a second chance to make a first impression.


If you change your primary picture, you will get less of those kind of things.

There are alot of women on here who have a primary picture, and quote like yours, who are running sex webcams.

I would say 9 out of 10 men are confusing you with them.

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*Sliver!*

Joined: 4/25/2005

So she should change who she is because men are morons? That's a beautiful pic of her. So what if she's showing cleavage?


If men see cleavage and assumg she's a cam whore they can go fuck themselves.

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anonymous1

Joined: 8/15/2008




And they probably do.



If she does not want any emails like that, she should change her picture, and show her eyes; they are the window to the soul, she will attract more men of the type she perfers.


If she doesn't mind deleting the emails, she should keep the picture she has, it is a beautiful picture.




I would not have said a word unless she asked about it on, Ask a GUY.







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*Sliver!*

Joined: 4/25/2005

I can see her eyes just fine! Seems to me you're the one with the problem.

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anonymous1

Joined: 8/15/2008

Reply to: I can see her eyes just fine! Seems to me you're the one with the problem.

I have my ways of being me, and attracting the kind of woman I want.

I don't want a woman to want my body, or face.

I want a woman who I can talk to.

I want to make a CONNECTION ON A SPIRITUAL LEVEL.



So the most you see of me, is my words.

And if I show a woman anything else, it is because we have been talking for awhile.


But, that's just me.


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*Sliver!*

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Yeah this isn't about you or your wants.

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anonymous1

Joined: 8/15/2008

Reply to: Yeah this isn't about you or your wants.


Actually, the name of this thread is, Ask a Guy.


It's not about you, or your wants.


I did not give any advice that I do not apply to my own life.


And nobody asked you.


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*Sliver!*

Joined: 4/25/2005

Stick to bible thumping. That's all you really understand!

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anonymous1

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Nobody asked for your opinion.



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*Sliver!*

Joined: 4/25/2005

When you imply that a friend of mine is a whore I don't give a shit if I was asked or not.

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anonymous1

Joined: 8/15/2008

Reply to: When you imply that a friend of mine is a whore I don't give a shit if I was as...


I never implied that your friend is/or was a whore.



I implied that men mistake her for one, and that she should delete them, or get used to it; unless she presents herself in another way.


I am not one of the men who sent her an email.





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*Sliver!*

Joined: 4/25/2005

That's a crock of shit. She's has a pic that shows a bit of cleavage so what?

She should not have to delete anything to demand the respect of men.

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anonymous1

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You're right, and she never had to delete me.


I do not approach women in that way, and I don't associate with men who do.


I gave advice that I try hard to apply to my own life.


Whether anybody takes it or not, is no concern of mine.


It's the way I try and live.





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goose5843

Joined: 7/25/2004

I am old fashioned but carefree in the same like. been a bartender,cook etc etc. have seen it all men and women slip the band off for 1 nights fun. i have had other women come from many differents states and treated them like ladies they got my bed i slept on the couch and no sex either. i believe in old fashion dating something thats not out there anymore guys want to wham bam thank you maam. women its there time they want sex and they go for anything. people dont think anymore lol thats the head on there shoulders lol. people wander why people are fussy. has nvr been desperate or needy keep looking all. some day u might find that one.
honk honk

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SteveNParkville

Joined: 1/7/2009

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Totally agreed. Truth is the men who show no respect would prob not show any more if she were wearing a parka. They are trolls pure and simple.

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Kajunqueen

Joined: 11/29/2008

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Goose,thanks for your post.We could use some "old fashioned" around here.

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sundrop68

Joined: 7/24/2008

If i see a woman and i plan on speaking to her, whether on here on in person and she has a certain physical attribute about her that i find attractive, then i'll tell her. Thats not all i'll say. Theres nothing wrong with giving a compliment. Be yourself and be honest.Everyones different, i know there are slimeballs just wanting sex or whatever and how could you know the difference? I just hate it when the bad ones make it harder for the good guys. I really get a kick out of reading some comments some guys leave for some women. lmao

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gabfaith

Joined: 4/26/2009

Reply to: If i see a woman and i plan on speaking to her, whether on here on in person an...
It'd be funny if it were the other way around...that is, if a guy received a message/comment from a girl that said "Hey, baby...nice bulge...you ever do the Horizontal Mambo?". Funny, the differences in gender behavior.

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sundrop68

Joined: 7/24/2008

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Sometmes they do and have!

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cutiepie007

Joined: 3/25/2009

Reply to: Sometmes they do and have!
Sorry babe.....am I a little too forward for you ;) LOL!!!! hahahahahahahaha!!!!

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sundrop68

Joined: 7/24/2008

Reply to: Sorry babe.....am I a little too forward for you ;) LOL!!!! hahahahahahahaha!!!!
No, Daddy like!

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*Sliver!*

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Eww!

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cutiepie007

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If daddy didn't would he promise to put me over his knee and spank my bare bottom? ;) LOL!

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