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goose5843

Joined: 7/25/2004

engaged 3 times married once all 3 found a richer man i guess paying bills providing for the family taking the other half out, making sure u stay ahead of the bills wasnt enuff. on my 2nd online romance and we both are seeing where it goes. I am fussy and she is also we both respect the truth and honesty between us. but then time will only tell thats what a relationship is all about.

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wesped99

Joined: 11/18/2008

wow this interesting

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morningperson

Joined: 6/29/2004

I was married for 12 yrs, then she decided to start seeing some she works with. I guess it wasn't meant to be forever. I guess I have a problem with memories of what it was like earlier in the marriage.I need to just wait till she comes along.

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marigold

Joined: 10/25/2008

I was in a relationship for many years, though not married. Been single for about 4 years now and loving it, but have been dated here and there and hang out with men platonically, chat with guys on line, and just have a very active social life in general. I've got a busy life and a fun hobby....so, well, I'd like to find someone special, but I don't want to be with somebody JUST so I won't be single. It has to be someone VERY SPECIAL at this point in my life to become exclusive and committed.

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TheZodiac

Joined: 11/30/2008

I'm single because I don't drink alcohol. All of my drinking friends seem to be in relationships. Most are divorced and are in the bars for depression BUT they leave with some pretty nice slam-pieces. If I drank alcohol, I'd probably be married with 3 kids by now. Hm.

-Z

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Badasscupcake

Joined: 11/17/2008

Reply to: Many reasons. I was with Mr Right but we broke it off and now he's married. ...
Yeah I agree about this site. It does make me hate alot of men too. Especially when you have dated someone off of the site and they screw u over again just like all the other ones... yeah.

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Badasscupcake

Joined: 11/17/2008

I am single because ALL guys only want sex they don't want a relationship. Also they like to run game. And just about every guy I encounter does not have a job, a car, and is a mooch. I attract the good one...lol.

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Irie96

Joined: 11/30/2008

I'm single after a 12 year relationship ended because he wanted more time with his kids so he moved back in with his ex-wife and thought I'd be okay with that. Since then I've dated a few guys and either there was no chemistry, they were on a poon hunt with the guise of looking for something meaningful, or I got bored.

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lifeis2fun

Joined: 9/14/2008

I just like guys above 9'', and its hard to find those...

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sly2345

Joined: 7/27/2005

I am single because I don't go out as much as I use to and Im really picky.

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*Sliver!*

Joined: 4/25/2005

Why does being single have to be a bad thing? I enjoy being single and not having to explain anything to anyone. I'm my own person and I don't need a man trying to make me belong to him.

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Kajunqueen

Joined: 11/29/2008

Reply to: I'm single because I don't drink alcohol. All of my drinking friends seem to b...
I'm single because I don't drink alcohol. All of my drinking friends seem to be in relationships. Most are divorced and are in the bars for depression BUT they leave with some pretty nice slam-pieces. If I drank alcohol, I'd probably be married with 3 kids by now. Hm.-Z

I truly doubt that is the reason.I dont drink either,but my ex did and that is why I am divorced from him.I wish I could find a non drinker,but they are limited...be proud that you dont drink and finding someone in a bar isnt all its cracked up to be...they usually dont last anyway.Havent you heard that song "the girls all get prettier at closing time?" LOL

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JoyceIsIn

Joined: 9/10/2003

I'm sure there are many reasons I am single... but the number one reason...

I SNORE !!!!!!!

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DrMollusk

Joined: 11/23/2008

It use to be that I was too nervous and that my self-esteem was pretty low. Nowadays, it's not so much that than just too many things going on through my life (facing unemployment in an area not hiring, graduating on no income, no way to get around cause I have no money for a car, etc).

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nighthowl50

Joined: 9/28/2005

I am probably STILL single after being divorced for 3-1/2 yrs because i am an overweight middleaged woman. I have had a couple that were pretty interested but they didn't make my heart sing and when i settle down again, it will be for the last time. I wonder at times if i am capable of that kind of love again.

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wingnudtzzaa

Joined: 4/30/2008

I'm a single dad working 2 jobs.....seems like women have an aversion to that...oh.....and I'm a damn moron and can't read a traffic signal nevermind a signal from a woman if she's interested

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deanjlav

Joined: 7/5/2008

Because in my photo, my eyebrows make me look like Bert from Sesame Street!lol. I am a real person,self confident and not willing to just settle for anyone. I posted the worst photos of the ones I took(and recent) as I am interested in meeting someone that is not shallow. In the past, I found too many women interested only because of my income or they were looking for someone to 'take care of them' I've done raised(took care of) my children, and looking for that person to complete me, not deplete me(emotionally).P.S. ladies there are 'real men' out there that would love to spend the rest of their lives faitfully with that "one" special lady. I'm just as sure there are still a lot of good women, so why rush into things. Many, as myself are happy to be single until the right person comes along.

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ChiefBloodFang

Joined: 2/8/2009

Reply to: Well, the biggest reason is that I still have my gaurd up from what has recentl...
im single just cause i am. i buggerd up my last one but hey after 7 years of my own company im cool. but meh when one comes along one will come along i put my faith in everything happens for a reason.

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sweetcarmelitta

Joined: 2/25/2005

Reply to: I'm single because I don't drink alcohol. All of my drinking friends seem to b...
Not really...You know, I just quit smoking a couple of months ago, and my friends drink and smoke...but we get along very well..and when we go out, we have the exact same chances with the guys we see...

It has nothing to do with the fact that you have a habit or not.

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kjhsjfhasldkj

Joined: 12/27/2008

Reply to: WELL I KNOW WHY I AM ....ONE>>>> BECAUSE THE MAN UPSTAIRS CALLED HI...
God is not responsible for death of a loved one! He wants all of us to live- forever!Check these out and they will bring comfort.(Isaiah 25:8),(1Cor.15:26),(Rev.21:4)

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kjhsjfhasldkj

Joined: 12/27/2008

I think I'm still single because I'm too nice! I'm not the "bad boy" anymore and I have found that most women are attracted to the "bad,""boys"""!

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parisman75

Joined: 9/3/2005

I think the reason I'm still single is that I'm not very confident and really fear talking to women (espcially attractive women!). Some talk about the fear of rejection and things like that, maybe that's me as well, but I'm just scared to talk to them. Those who know me say I'm a nice guy and would make a good catch for a woman, it's just getting past that initial few weeks (months) of talking to women and them getting to know me. Also, I've been told that when I do talk to women that I give off some sort of 'desperation' to them. It just makes me wonder..the guys who run around on their g/f's or beat them up seem always to get others (or the same ones, sadly :(), but they run for the hills when I talk to them :\. I don't know but there's my reason.

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Kajunqueen

Joined: 11/29/2008

Reply to: I think the reason I'm still single is that I'm not very confident and really f...
I think it does not have any thing to do with bad or nice.You just haven't found the right lady yet.

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SteveNParkville

Joined: 1/7/2009

Reply to: I think it does not have any thing to do with bad or nice.You just haven't foun...
I agree with Kajun but would add that while finding that right one is a royal pain in the ass, its worth it when you do

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eztripp

Joined: 7/20/2003

I'm single because I am just too old fashioned for today’s times. I actually want to feel there is a future or at least a chance of one before things get sexual and today’s women are willing to have sex with men that they haven't decided to kiss yet.

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