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sundrop68

Joined: 7/24/2008

I'm single because i think i'm into spending time with my daughters right now and just have not found the one to distract me yet.Theres much to be said for dating and just meeting people and having fun.

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bob_the_bear

Joined: 1/21/2009

I am single because I left a counterfeit of a marriage meant to bind me to the underworld -and because I refuse to obey evil men or refrain from telling people things they really need to know. I'd say it was because those evil and/or secretive men seek to harm those I love -which they do -but they do that anyway. It's their gig -it's what they do -it's how they expand. No -it's more so that anyone I would want to be with would have to be just as determined to do the right thing -even under threat -and would have enough faith to know that what becomes of us is ultimately not for men to decide.
(too much info?) :op

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Kajunqueen

Joined: 11/29/2008

I'm single because........... I got divorced?

LOL

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Biz Tiz

Joined: 3/12/2009

I try to do the right thing,but it always go the wrong way.

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SteveNParkville

Joined: 1/7/2009

I am single because I will not compromise on what I want out a life partner if I am going to have another one. Made that mistake once have no intentions on repeating it

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Kajunqueen

Joined: 11/29/2008

Reply to: I am single because I will not compromise on what I want out a life partner if ...
I hear ya Steve....I sorta like being single at the moment.It gives you time to think about what is most important....WHAT I WANT...LMAO!

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SteveNParkville

Joined: 1/7/2009

Reply to: I hear ya Steve....I sorta like being single at the moment.It gives you time to...
I think there is a lot of truth to that, while there has to be some compromise in a relationship, I tend to think that these days a lot of people compromise on to much stuff or change themselves just to suit the relationship and it ends up leaving them unhappy or they revert to who they really are and the other person is left wondering just who the hell they married.

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cutiepie007

Joined: 3/25/2009

I am single because I am not desperate to settle in just any relationship - if someone comes along and rocks my world - Awesome! If not....that's awesome too - I don't need anyone to 'complete' me...I am already.

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Kajunqueen

Joined: 11/29/2008

Reply to: I think there is a lot of truth to that, while there has to be some compromise ...
I TOTALLY get that and agree...Another thing is telling someone you will 'change" for them...Hell,I wouldn't be me if I changed,right?
You have to accept EVERYTHING about a person before it can work. If there are things you can not accept and live with,it is better to move on.
But,what do I know?

;)

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peggyp

Joined: 11/29/2008

Reply to: I TOTALLY get that and agree...Another thing is telling someone you will 'chang...
Kajun, I completely agree. You shouldn't have to change for anyone. If he loves me, he loves me for who I am and everything about me. Don't try to mold me into the person you think I should be.

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SteveNParkville

Joined: 1/7/2009

Reply to: I TOTALLY get that and agree...Another thing is telling someone you will 'chang...
Yup that is exactly how I feel to! I also agree with Claire, I am at a point in my life were I do not feel like I need someone else to complete me.

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rockyonline007

Joined: 5/12/2009

Reply to: I tend to attract dopeheads usually, I guess I have stupid tattooed to my foreh...
call me 214-240-1376...lets date

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rockyonline007

Joined: 5/12/2009

Reply to: I'm single because........... I got divorced? LOL
call me 214-240-1376...lets date

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nighthowl50

Joined: 9/28/2005

not wise putting your phone number out like that.

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Artistic1

Joined: 5/12/2009

ive always wondered that same question

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SteveNParkville

Joined: 1/7/2009

Reply to: call me 214-240-1376...lets date
Just to let ya know dude, I had a gay friend put your number up at his favorite bar, expect lots of calls! Just doing my part to help out the youth of America

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The Chino

Joined: 8/26/2005

Reply to: Just to let ya know dude, I had a gay friend put your number up at his favorite...
Expect lots of prank calls, esp. since my friends will be the ones doing the pranking. LMAO.

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rdleaf2

Joined: 10/5/2004

Reply to: I am probably STILL single after being divorced for 3-1/2 yrs because i am an o...
That is me too nightowl. Also after my marriage breakup of 22 years and him leaving for a very young girl, it destroyed my self-esteem and I sometimes just hate men.

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Leese71

Joined: 5/15/2009

Im not sure why I'm single, but I know it was at least 50 percent his fault. There were problems from like week 3, but we both hung in there with eachother, probably too long.

Once I get hurt, by someone I really love, I tend to withdraw after that. With my X, he didnt acknowledge the real pain I was in, he couldn't talk about problems etc, and he'd get mad. I just kept withdrawing more, and he kept getting angrier. Communiciation is so important in my opinion, but to my X conversation was taboo...

So we slowly fell out of love with eachother..

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Muted

Joined: 5/13/2009

Since people like answering the 6 month old question, here's mine:

Because I don't like people, I have a 'hard time' talking to people, I have a tendency to insult people, especially for idiocy. I don't have many common interests with the majority of people, and I don't honestly give a shit what at least 80% of the world (US country *) thinks. I don't conform to their "standards" by any means. I honestly think make-up is ugly, and sluts are turn-offs. Even "flirts" or people who like to expose themselves and go "tee hee, I'm cute huh?" Or some other bullshit.

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Leese71

Joined: 5/15/2009

Reply to: Since people like answering the 6 month old question, here's mine: Because I d...
Have you ever considered that insulting people for their "idiocy" is a form of idiocy in itself? No offense, but maybe if you realized the irrationality of demeaning others for not being as "intelligient" as you are.. (it helps nobody, serves no purpose, hurts others, and causes others not to want to be around you) then maybe you wouldnt be so alone, and I know you are very alone. If you didnt want friends, or to be acknowledged. you wouldnt be here at all...

I am not saying this to hurt you. Im saying it because you seem so alone..
I know you are going to post a demeaning response,(to which I will not respond) but before you do, maybe try considering what I've said first, and include the intentions of the reason I said it..

Just trying to be a friend
Lisa

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Muted

Joined: 5/13/2009

 you wouldnt be here at all...
Have to dip your feet in the water sometime right? Figured there's a super slim chance somebody might be alive still, guess I was wrong.

'Sup? Feel free to not reply.

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SteveNParkville

Joined: 1/7/2009

Reply to: Have you ever considered that insulting people for their "idiocy" is a form of ...
So well said Lisa and so so true

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Muted

Joined: 5/13/2009

Lol'd

I just yelled "Fuck you" at my radio.
It was saying shit about "Spreading the gospel" LOL

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dan1975

Joined: 4/22/2009

because it seems like woman only want jerks and not someone who will treat them with respect

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