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beckyb78719

Joined: 7/28/2005

I can't speak for all women over 48; but I disagree - we are not unhappy or sad; we are just tired of putting up with crap. I am extremely happy now that I'm divorced. There are times I would like to share my life with someone special; but I don't rely on another person to bring me happiness. If I feel like listening to the radio - I can! If there is something on TV I want to watch - I can! If I want to read a romance novel - I can! If I feel like going out of town - I can! There is no-one to tell me what I can and can't do. Life is too short to be unhappy and sad. You cannot expect another person to bring you happiness - it has to comes from within.

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LiveToLove

Joined: 1/12/2009

Yeah Becky! It is totally awesome to be able to do whatever you want to do without having to worry about pleasing someone else!

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rocketfire

Joined: 4/21/2005

Reply to: I am single, mother of a ten year old daughter. She hasnt seen her father in ov...
hehehe Lorie..nice feedback ;) cheers...now go to my room hehehe :) Muah

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LiveToLove

Joined: 1/12/2009

hehehe Lorie..nice feedback ;) cheers...now go to my room hehehe :) Muah

She might know who you are talking about if you got her name right ... it's Laurie not Lorie.

Welcome to the Short Attention Span Theater

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browneyes39208

Joined: 10/10/2008

Reply to: I think your correct in some aspects. Men are more secure and settled, Women mo...
I don't know about men being more secure or settled. I've been single for a while, I have two boys at home plus I work full time and attend school for the past 2 1/2 yrs and take care of myself and my kids. Lets see a man do that. Not many can. And for us looking for younger men, some women are just like some men do. We all have our preference. Myself, they have to be closer to my age! few years younger or older. I do agree life is all about choices.

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anonymous1

Joined: 8/15/2008

I'm happy,

Here's something from my profile,

I am more spiritual than materialistic.
Living a simple life on a tropical island, playing/learning music,
on guitar, and harmonica; watching my dogs run, and play on the beach.
Sailing, (I'm a member of the yacht club) canoeing, wilderness camping. Are some of the things I like to do.
There is nothing like camping in a tropical wilderness during mango season!!

These things are worth more than a millions of dollars to me.

I love JESUS, and read my Bilble, but 501c3 tax free churches, are against my religion.
I love all kinds of music, but my favorite songs are scriptures.

I believe in following my dreams, and living them.

I live in Hawaii, near a lagoon. I live a real simple life; and spend most of my time with GOD, and my pets.
I love people, but for the most part I am content alone.
I don't associate with anybody I don't trust, or like.


I have a few friends, who I am honored to know.
I value their friendships highly.
Some for their brains, some for their integrity, or other unique qualities.
When I introduce somebody as my friend, I mean it.
When my friends meet eachother there tends to be a mutual respect, because they know these things about me.


Part of my dream is to live in my own little world, in this big giant universe.
I achieve this partly by a mental state of prayer and meditation, and partly by choosing a life that is a like a dream.


I Breed Old Family Red Rednose Pitbull Terriers.
I am a professional dog trainer, and train service dogs.
A hard day of work for me is playing fetch at the beach; or taking my dog on a bus, to a restaraunt, and the movies.


I am a medical marijuana counselor, and grow good green medical buds.
I teach people to increase their yield; the hard part of that job, is trying to grow the biggest, most potent pot plant on earth.


Somebody has to do those jobs, so I stepped up.

................... .....





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I don't really want a younger woman.
We would not have much in common.

But, I have noticed that alot of women my age are going through menopause, and they scare me.

I lost my best friend, and girlfriend of two years, because of her mood swings on experimental hormone medicines.

I got a three year restraining order on her, it broke my heart.

It takes alot of evidence for a 6 foot man, to get a 3 year restraining order, on a woman that is 80 pounds lighter than him!

I would probably feel more secure in a relationship with a woman who has gone through menopause already.


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LiveToLove

Joined: 1/12/2009

I've pretty much been happy at every age I've been. I think the real key to happiness is understanding who and what you are. Once you know yourself the rest is easy. If you're a negative person, chances are you won't be very happy, unless negativity makes you happy of course. Learning to roll with life's punches and being able to keep your eye on what is most important to you will generally give you a lifetime of happiness.

It seems a lot of people are so concerned about what other people think of them. When you feel this concern ask yourself this question; will any of these people come to my funeral? Probably not so who gives a rip what they think? Even in your own family, if you feel uncomfortable there is a reason for it. Find out what it is so you keep from interfering with you keeping your eye on what is most important to you.

Remember "compromise" is just another way of saying "what is most important to me is not all that important." Do you believe that?

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dpmahon

Joined: 11/16/2008

Happy at 55. :)

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mast2008

Joined: 5/5/2008

ALL women are miserable fucks from the on set. They are NEVER happy, unless they're shopping, buying shoes, and that is only temporary. Stupid Cunts

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lynncat

Joined: 8/14/2007

Reply to: ALL women are miserable fucks from the on set. They are NEVER happy, unless the...
Yes, you are right I'm a miserable whatever. I do love to shop. It is fun to put on a new dress or underwear and feel good. As for all women. I know all women aren't miserable. I have some friends that are very happy. Heck, I hate the single life but, I seem to be stuck in it. Time has gone fast while I'm stuck in no where land. I'm over that menopause thing so, I'm definitely not moody. I'm not unhappy about my past. I look at my beautiful children and grandchildren. Yes, they are beautiful! But, I am alone. This is not what I wished for at this stage of my life. Retirement is coming and I would like to find someone special. I have worked a long time. MAST WHAT MAKES YOU SUCH AN AUTHORITY? Some men are better than some women but not all men are better than all women. I know some females who can read at 5 years old. They don't seem to be all that stupid. I want to live the dream with the man who comes on the white horse or airplane and carries me away. I would love to be married but, ? Who knows what life holds? I have three brothers and I can definitely beat the crap out of you!


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mast2008

Joined: 5/5/2008

Reply to: I can't speak for all women over 48; but I disagree - we are not unhappy o...
Putting up with "crap" ? YOU fucking females are the one's who CAUSE it all with your fucking emotional drama and other bullshit so FUCK you stupid cunt

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friendofyours

Joined: 2/15/2005

Reply to: Putting up with "crap" ? YOU fucking females are the one's who CAUSE it all wit...
Wow you are so intelligent aren't you? I bet your mummy is really proud of you.

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mast2008

Joined: 5/5/2008

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Because 15 years of research MAKES me an authority. 3 brothers that could beat the crap out of me? LOL funny, would be interesting to see them do that with their kneecaps broken, or SHOT out HAG. Bring them on. How old are they? I'm sure they'll get 'round to "beating my ass" when they are done with their asthama inhalers, diabetes injections or god knows what. Women are NEVER happy, you're the embodiment of fucking miserable. Menopause, it's just a hemi for BITCH. You know some female who CAN read at 5 years old? or did you mean you KNEW of some "Females" that could read at 5 years of age? My god get it rights for crissake grandma. Marriage is for weak men. Marriage is some deluded lifestyle for stupid females. Life doesn't hold much for you at YOUR age !! OF course you love to "shop" it's an extension of your lack of self esteem, so you adorn yourself in gawdy warpaint, trinkets and baubles and other garish things to make yourself "appealing" to a SUPERIOR man. That's all you stupid females live for, is to get yourself a "MAN" You're pathetic.

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mast2008

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Whacked ass fucking Hippy.

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LiveToLove

Joined: 1/12/2009

Reply to: Yes, you are right I'm a miserable whatever. I do love to shop. It is fun to p...
Don't worry about it Lynn ... you and I know the truth, as do millions of others of our fellow human beings. The truth is men and women are different, yes but in unique and wonderful ways. As far as intelligence is concerned, the TRUTH is we are ALL (both men and women) at varying levels of intelligence. For all men and women, there will be those of both genders who are more intelligent and those of both genders who are less intelligent.

As far as I'm concerned, Mast is definitely swimming at the shallow end of the gene pool. I hope he never procreates.

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mast2008

Joined: 5/5/2008

Reply to: Wow you are so intelligent aren't you? I bet your mummy is really proud of you.
My "mummy" you stupid cunt is DEAD HAHAHAHAHAHH I have never called her "mummy" either, that is for pussy whipped men, you know, the kind you like, stupid cunt.

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AmazonPrincess1

Joined: 4/21/2009

Reply to: Well, I am meeting a lot of wonderful ladies my age BUT there is a big problem....
Repectfully, if you are looking for a woman who's first qualities have to be "exciting" and "can stimulate your genitals", it doesn't surprise me that you are still looking. You would do better to look a the nurturing ones, they may have that spark inside but are a lady first. We all get old and gray, would do better to find a woman of character.

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Kajunqueen

Joined: 11/29/2008

Reply to: I can't speak for all women over 48; but I disagree - we are not unhappy o...
I totally agree with this!
I can't speak for all women over 48; but I disagree - we are not unhappy or sad; we are just tired of putting up with crap. I am extremely happy now that I'm divorced. There are times I would like to share my life with someone special; but I don't rely on another person to bring me happiness. If I feel like listening to the radio - I can! If there is something on TV I want to watch - I can! If I want to read a romance novel - I can! If I feel like going out of town - I can! There is no-one to tell me what I can and can't do. Life is too short to be unhappy and sad. You cannot expect another person to bring you happiness - it has to comes from within.

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nighthowl50

Joined: 9/28/2005

how do you find the happiness from within?

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LiveToLove

Joined: 1/12/2009

Reply to: how do you find the happiness from within?
By being totally at peace with who you are. Once that happens the entire world and everything in it takes on a different meaning.

By totally at peace, I mean satisfied with your physical, mental and emotional being ... no regrets about the past, no living in the past and no playing "what if". When you are totally at peace then happiness is in everything your five senses encounter and your heart is totally free to experience true happiness.

It is true, happiness does not COME from another, but it can INCLUDE another.

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nighthowl50

Joined: 9/28/2005

just having a blue day. not happy or content with anything today.

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LiveToLove

Joined: 1/12/2009

Reply to: just having a blue day. not happy or content with anything today.
*gives Nighty a big bear hug*

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friendofyours

Joined: 2/15/2005

Reply to: My "mummy" you stupid cunt is DEAD HAHAHAHAHAHH I have never called her "mummy"...
Heee hee I wound you up. It's so easy. I love to see you get wound up by all these wonderful women.

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mast2008

Joined: 5/5/2008

Reply to: Heee hee I wound you up. It's so easy. I love to see you get wound up by all th...
"wound up"? You fucking wish you malignant sow...don't you have some traffic to play in?

stupid cunt.

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friendofyours

Joined: 2/15/2005

Reply to: Heee hee I wound you up. It's so easy. I love to see you get wound up by all th...
Yes I do, I'm a taxi driver, how did you guess sweetie.

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