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jendoll

Joined: 5/4/2005

Reply to: Good man/Good woman pretty simple to explain.. Both want the same thing.. Respe...
That is the most honest answer yet. Thank you

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Posted 9 years ago
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roadman69

Joined: 11/1/2008

Hey i am a good man i swear on my life and to the man up stairs I am a good guy. And to me you could never be to nice or sweet. My name is Brad.

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Maryhowcouldugo

Joined: 11/2/2008

Reply to: Honestly in my Option. Some Guy's may be looking for a Mommy Replacement and be...
I totally agree about the mommy replacement. I refuse to date momma's boys.

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numblove1

Joined: 4/22/2007

I have the True answer for you!..There are good men out there..sad thing is that alot of the good,honest caring fun loyal men have been treated like shit by women that begin off as normal and after six months or a year they say they need space or some lame garbage and you find out they r cheating..or everything they have been saying about the man..ie. feelings future with him..was a lie..so im my eyes all the good men have been hurt by good women that have done unforgiveable bad things and all good men hold onto that as a learning experience and take that into the next relationship..wherein they wont let a good girl prolly like yourself hirt them again so they hurt you first..and sad thing is that all the good men that havent goten hurt and have these hangups like I explained..are Taken or married cause the good girl they found is exactly that a good girl thats ready and willing to comprimise and just be with that man for who he is cause they love him,,my advice to you..KEEP looking YOU WILL get lucky one DAY =)

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Steven123

Joined: 7/19/2008

I'm a good guy...Some girls are just crazy

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Roruk

Joined: 11/11/2008

if you to nice we need to talk i'm labled as to nice my self and i could use a nice girl

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Roruk

Joined: 11/11/2008

the name is dusty good guy's are out there you just gotta fnd us and it looks i've been found out that i'm a nice guy

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realprincess

Joined: 7/17/2005

Reply to: listen i been lookin for the rite girl but everytime i turn around i get cheate...
a good man knows how to speak and write..and would not have posted a picture on here with their middle finger up!!!!

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Etritonakin

Joined: 9/11/2008

So I waxed a bit poetic before ...perhaps a bit cynical -but dude is right -(I'm paraphrasing..)the good men try to get it right -the bad guys just try to get it -the good men are those who hold you in such high esteem as to hesitate to approach you -and if you really want a good man, you might want to give him a chance by not being busied with guys you know are not good! If you don't have the patience to wait for a good man (or woman), you won't have the patience to make a real relationship work! A good man wants YOU -not several of your type in as many months!

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aarnold

Joined: 9/19/2004

well i gotta say whats good to you is bad to the other person so it would all depend on the person and their standerds and values however im an optimist and i say theres good in most you just gotta know how to bring it out

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just living ma ...

Joined: 7/23/2008

Cause they are tired of you and want someone else. thats the excuse they use when they dont want you anymore i.e after screwing you. Any Man that tells you that tell him to get the F out of your Life.

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joeyesjoeitsjoe

Joined: 11/28/2007

Jenny, I have spent most of my adult life looking for a "good" woman. My biggest problem was determining good. I know 'good' in bed isn't it. Also just "good" isn't enough. I have learned that if true love really exists it would have to be eternal. If it is eternal then why do we waste soooo much time finding temporary solutions for our needs? I believe that sex is too early the jist of a relationship....the ideal is to wait. However we never wait, and we completely miss the person we had sex with. It takes some quality time spent learning a person, never accept just the body, it doesn't last ! A real man's place in a relationship where he loves is to ensure that it has a chance for eternity, and the womans place is to keep a man pointed in that direction. A righteous man is the only....ONLY fulfilled and happy man. A woman who is surrounded in TRUE love is a happy woman, her security is paramount for the man. I could go on for weeks...expounding about how our society has given into lust for the sake of love. A good song to listen to is "Learn To Be Still" by the eagles....may favorite.


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rico76

Joined: 12/12/2004

My opinion is this as I have posted otherwise as well is that getting to know each other is an important part of building a lasting relation..if your looking for a quickie sure pick up the guy who looks like GQ from the beach or something but then you based the start on physical attraction and not mental or characteristic attraction which is the threshold of a lasting relation...build it from the mentality up..of course there has to physical attraction as well because it just has to be there but from the mentality up if your looking for lasting...the true mentality..not the front him or her is putting up just to get what they want the real person...

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rico76

Joined: 12/12/2004

My opinion is this as I have posted otherwise as well is that getting to know each other is an important part of building a lasting relation..if your looking for a quickie sure pick up the guy who looks like GQ from the beach or something but then you based the start on physical attraction and not mental or characteristic attraction which is the threshold of a lasting relation...build it from the mentality up..of course there has to physical attraction as well because it just has to be there but from the mentality up if your looking for lasting...the true mentality..not the front him or her is putting up just to get what they want the real person...

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seanr1

Joined: 11/8/2004

My friend sounds like you date man-boys. You can always have one or the other, Trying to have both Within the same person is your recipe for disaster.No worries I have a preminition that you will in fact find a man that will value you as you are.Thats what we all are really looking for sooner or later.

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suzette48

Joined: 1/23/2004

they put in there profile,, no head games keep it real,, then they put you down and tell you, you are lieing,, and they dont even know who you are,,or lets go for the one that say there in the us and there not,, or they tell you i make really good money,,really i dont care what you make,im looking for some nice guy,, have found a few of them that ended up being good chat friends..

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shocc

Joined: 9/2/2008

the good men must be everywhere ur not looking Hun.and most men who don't function well in relationship were usally wronged by a woman they fell in love with.you can get total satisfaction from damaged goods

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cowboy8424

Joined: 11/20/2008

You can't tell by reading my profile that im labled as a nice guy but iv bin told by every one of my girl friends and by women that turn me down that im too nice. then they turn around ask why can't they find a nice man. aint nothin wors then hypacrital women, im just fed up with the hole nice guy thing, I come to realize women don't wont a nice guy. can any one prove im wrong or tell me why i have such bad luck with being the nice guy, cause its not an act its a bad habit and im ready to break it.

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lexman

Joined: 8/20/2004

hard to answer but asking question with a question. always asked, Where is the real good woman?

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gentleforce

Joined: 8/5/2004

Interesting question - but I think it is the same problem as searching for perfection, it doesn't exist. Searching for a good person has that same quality, first what is meant as good by your standards (which are unique). So first you have to be very clear about what you mean by a good person. Second you must realize no one will perfectly fit that model. The idea is in your mind, not in the real world. Better to approach it from a negative, what is not acceptable behavior and find a person that comes as close as possible to not having unacceptable behaviors. Of course this takes time, effort, and study and in our immediate gratification culture - you meet someone this week, date twice, have sex on the fourth date and a month later wonder how did I ever get involved with that person. Consequences are always an abrupt slap by reality, but each of us has to choose and live with the consequences of those decisions.

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kenshi1

Joined: 5/11/2005

ok, lets really look at this. I'm a good man (not perfect but good) and often have to pay for the mistakes that cheaters and losers do to women. Lady's I know that you've all been hurt. But if we examine this, YOU DID PICK THESE FOOLS. You probably walked right by great guys everydy but alas, you chose Mr. Jerk. Now when you meet a great guy- strong, sensitive, kind, funny, hung, etc- you treat him like crap due to the mistrust that you have due to "your" choice. Slow down, take your time, and see the good men that are out there.

And ladies, we men also meet messed up women. Are there good guys and females out there, of course! Know the difference. You can see it in the body language, things that are said,and other signals. Stop ignoring your intuition and run like hell when bells and whistles sound. There, that should fix it. lol

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otalpthesage

Joined: 9/23/2004

Trust so very important. Can't be played with or trifled about. total and complete trust. Can you get hurt, very easily but unless you try, only way to locate right one. You close your eyes next to this person, Trust. Love and share pleasure knowing only if both have the others pleasure more important than own. Magic. Which is why I still search. Jay

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fitness

Joined: 7/25/2007

maibe you were looking for in the wrong place!!

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joeandmanny

Joined: 11/22/2008

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To easy to find and life begins when you do.

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joeandmanny

Joined: 11/22/2008

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Your so insightful.

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