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AbbyS717

Joined: 9/27/2010

I feel both parties are guilty of taking the occasional glance. It is one thing if they are staring. If you say something and they don't acknowledge when they are looking, then you may have a problem. I would be lying if I told you I didn't look at other men when I was dating. My opinion is you don't have anything to be concerned about. Then again, I don't know your situation and it is just an opinion.

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tigereyes13

Joined: 10/16/2005

well you are netitled to your own opinion

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AbbyS717

Joined: 9/27/2010

I feel everyone is. Some people just need to learn how to express themselves appropriately. Even more so when NOT to voice their opinion.

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gamaforce

Joined: 10/10/2009

Reply to: I feel everyone is. Some people just need to learn how to express themselves ap...
I hope you dont mind if I voice my opinion about your lovely picture, and appropiate disposition.

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AbbyS717

Joined: 9/27/2010

Reply to: I hope you dont mind if I voice my opinion about your lovely picture, and appro...
I do not mind. Actually, I appreciate the compliment.

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gamaforce

Joined: 10/10/2009

Reply to: I do not mind. Actually, I appreciate the compliment.
You are a sweet gal. What are you doing stalking the forums? You should be married to your choice of men.

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AbbyS717

Joined: 9/27/2010

Reply to: You are a sweet gal. What are you doing stalking the forums? You should be ma...
I started down that road once upon a time. As you can see, it did not work out that well. As for stalking the forums, I have not met many people here yet to speak to privately. (That is NOT an open invitation for anyone to perv me." I also need an outlet, and adult conversation in my life. A single working mother, with an apartment, and school. Once and awhile you just need to get away, even if it is only online.

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gamaforce

Joined: 10/10/2009

Reply to: I started down that road once upon a time. As you can see, it did not work out ...
Thats pretty much the very same thing I do. Im really not looking for permanent companionship, just a bunch of crazys to hang out with. Having said this, Ive found the right place. Most of these people are OK, some have demonstrated a propensity to be tempermental at times, but still fine with me.

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AbbyS717

Joined: 9/27/2010

Reply to: Thats pretty much the very same thing I do. Im really not looking for permanen...
Aren't we all temperamental at times? That is what happens when a group of human beings, with different personalities, congregate in a single area. It is inevitable that differences of opinion will occur. It is how each person copes with each individualized opinion that determines the outcome of any given situation. Just my philosophy on things, not that anyone asked.

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gamaforce

Joined: 10/10/2009

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Its not that I meant to point it out for the sake of it. Just sort of a reminder to you that there are people here. LOL Some people visit these forums and cant handle what can, and does happen here. However, there are also those times when things are calm, like now.

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Thorisin

Joined: 8/23/2010

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(That is NOT an open invitation for anyone to perv me." 

Aww DAMN!!!!

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koreanwoman

Joined: 1/4/2005

In todays world, everyone, must be ALERT and "LOOK" (just a quick, glance) at everyone, surrounding them. Too many, FELONS, In-State and Outta-State.

I know, if I was a guy, I'd do the same thing now, as I'm doing, as a woman.
(Just a quick, glance, of my surroundings.)

I'm just lucky to have had an ex-husband, NOT, be interested in looking at other chicks in public. Hell, he didn't even own a computer nor like computers. Now, THESE, are the guys, any (straight) woman, should want. :)


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jem1987

Joined: 7/20/2007

I do not want a guy who can't keep up with technology, cuz I need him to help me when I get behind! Lol.

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*Sliver!*

Joined: 4/25/2005

Ugh, there is NOTHING wrong with looking.


Insecurity drives me up the fucking wall.

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gamaforce

Joined: 10/10/2009

I just like to look at well shaped women, because its fun. Always has been fun, and always will be fun. Its also fun to make remarks with friends.

Example: "Look at the shitter on that critter"

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THE BULLGOD

Joined: 10/27/2010

AINT NOTHINGWRONG WITH IT THEY SHOULD BE WORRIED IF HE DONT LOOK AT HER,ALOTA CATS BE UNDERCOVER THESE DAYS

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shelhig

Joined: 3/14/2011

It is true that we all look. I am right there with everybody about that. And there is a deffinate difference in the way each sex handles it. It is totally natural for Everyone to look. What i disagree with is those of you that say if a lady is getting upset over this it is because she is insecure, not confident enough. When you have your sights set on someone special...you tend to do alot of things for that person, including looking good for them, and you want that approval that you do look good, the best even:) When people try hard and constantly never meet up to expectations like that it is an awful shot to the ego.
Ladies...What i find is best, screw it all!! Look your best all the time!!:) Nobody is gonna make me feel good about me but me!!:):) lol Get the guys looking at YOU..then see how he reacts to that!! hahaha! its a whole 'nother ball game then.
And fellas...always just good to remember what happens when "you take your eyes off the prize" for to long...just have a little descretion!! you got alot of time in the day!! wanna stare at other women..fine, do it with your friends. Your love doesn't need to deal with it along with you! Respect:):)

My husband and i were in vegas...yea u know,pretty girls everywhere,smutt peddled every two feet,:) heeheee. And it was cool! it was funny and stuff at first him runnin over to get them, lookin at them all, reading em, makin silly comments. But after so long it just gets annoying. I even got ran over and shoved out of the way by some chic trying to get some to my man!! lmao! Anyways shortly the boys from "The thunder down under" strolled by...i made quite a few comments, got a pic with one, made a few gestures of my own:):):) After that the whole thing changed!! He was turning it all away, paying more attention to what WE were doing...etc. :) Point is...tables turned, they don't like it much!! Haha

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Ms . Wild one

Joined: 8/18/2010

its definitely not just guys that look, lol women do too , when me and the girls are out and we see men in uniform u best believe we check them out, and if im at the gym , and a guy walks by with muscles , especially the v muscles , I am definitely checking him out , but when i wasn't single , my husband didnt have any problem with it cuz he knew he had me no matter what.and as long as the other partner is honest looking is fine.

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xavier12

Joined: 3/25/2008

most of the bisexual girls I have dated check out women more than I do.

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jem1987

Joined: 7/20/2007

I check out girls with the guy I'm seeing, haha. I've done that with dates before, and they usually can't handle it. Hey, look all you want, I'm ok with it. As long as you're only looking. ; P

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Etritonakin3.0

Joined: 7/18/2010

Can't help but notice people, but I make it a point (made it a point back when I had something resembling a social life) when dating someone to not "look" at anyone else -especially in their presence. People tend to think I'm perving a lot -as I look around a lot -but I'm just gathering input and cultivating sensitivity to body langugae, facial expressions, etc. I do notice beautiful people -though those I perceive as beautiful are not necessarily those considered beautiful by popular standards -nor do I concentrate mostly on physical beauty -but if I am dating someone, "look"ing at them should be quite enough. Noticing is impossible to avoid -but "look"ing dishonors the one you're with. Meh -call me old-fashioned.

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Cole1127

Joined: 4/19/2011

There are some of us, maybe there aren't any other than me.., that doesnt look at other women. No it is not old fasion to think this way - to have him want to look at only you in that way. It is human nature to be pleaasing to the other enough that he doesnt look at other women. It is that most men are immature and havent grown up. They also implies that he is not content with only you. When I am with a woman, I do not look at other women - quick glance to look in general, but not to study her with curiousity or lust. If you want someone that is real, and wont look or think of other women while we are together, then say hello. I will tell you my outlook on this matter in a more private message if you want. It is simple and real.

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phillyvic

Joined: 5/7/2004

You sound way too insecure. Do you give the guy hell over it? Of course he'll say he wasn't looking, he's just going to say what you want to hear. Look at it this way, if he isn't looking, he's losing his labido, which won't do much for you

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phillyvic

Joined: 5/7/2004

Reply to: I feel both parties are guilty of taking the occasional glance. It is one thing...
I don't think "guilty" is a good term to use. Normal is more like it.

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sexpuppet7

Joined: 1/2/2011

You can resolve this, and not have to worry about it or be insecure about it by simply bringing a sexy lady to the room with yall! my man will never stray because i bring women to him for the both of us to enjoy. And i usually stare a girl down before he does. I know my man is with me, and im the one he fucks every night, so it doesnt bother me a bit that he looks at other women

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