Friends. We meet, hang out. Nothing more, nothing less. If something develops, then hey, we're adults and adults shouldn't have so many damn rules for ourselves. Sometimes people make things soooo much more complicated than they need to be. So, toss the rule books out the door before approaching me. If you're looking for a man to propose to you, carry you over the alter, say "I do", buy you a ring, jump the broom, or anything like the above in a certain period of time, then I'm not your guy. I didn't jump into buying a house easily and I SURELY won't commit my entire life to one person as easily. Sorry...but I'd rather spend time getting to know you than have some sort of goal as if we're in a rush against time.
Just enjoy life! As for you, don't be fat. I can't help it. I'm not physically attracted to heavy women. Sure, you can be nice and cook well, but hey, body rolls, more than one chin, guts, flab under the arms, cottage cheese, and the shape of a sumo never really got my blood flowing. Just be in shape. It really shouldn't be that difficult...but you'd be surprised!
NO SMOKERS and if you're not a risk-taker or adventurist, not liberal in thought, not at least partly exhibitionist, not full of surprises,...or are selfish, jealous, or filled with low self-esteem, then stay away. I love living life and you should too. Imagine the damage we could wind up doing! :)