BenJamInFrankLi... Looking for a Silver Lining for the Inside of My Golden Rainbow's Cloud,
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Joined On: November 11, 2007
Seeking: Women
Looking for: Flirting
Age/Gender 57 year old Man
Location: Rouzerville, PA
Height: 6'3"
Body: Disabled
Race: Native American, White
Religion: Spiritual
Languages: English, German, Other
Income: Tell you later
Profession: Technical / Science / Engineer
Education: Graduate Degree
Status: Other
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what you should know about me

Compelled compassionate, refined/cultured 52 year old, 6'3" gentleman via thirteen years spent in Europe. Physically, emotionally, and financially secure man grasping the real things in life that nature has to offer me. Benefiting from the golden rule of placing myself in another persons shoes and treat them the way I would want to be treated. Always looking out for the under dogs in this world for they are the true resources that makes this world unique, Liberate the oppressed, De Oppreso Liber. In others words love thee neighbor as thee loves thee self. Deeds are greater than words, Facta, non verba.Always learning new things on a daily bases but keeping them simple and basic as music. Looking for new ways and ideas to make life more pleasant and relaxing for my self, family and friends. Constantly carving out my niche in this world with education and meeting new people, Honeur et Raison, Honorante Gloria, Fortes et Liber. Hermit crab, Cancer's nimbus, star setting Canis Minor gazing towards Gemini in Orion's Arms, seventh major nautilus.
To Discover Life in Its Essence is a Journey.
We Fear Unexpected Difficulties & Cringe at Trouble.
Vanquishing Fear is Monumental. It Requires Our Whole Soul.
We Meet & Lose Companions, & Stand in Line for the Next Handout.
Others Can Teach, Yet the True Lessons Come From Within.
To Love From the Heart is to Be Alive. To Be Bitter & Not Forgive is to Hate & to Be Dead.
Reconciliation is the Key to Happiness & Lets Our Spirit Go Free as Birds Mounts in Flight.

who i want to meet here

A lady who is honest with herself, family and friends. She'll let you know what her needs, wants and desires are without a bunch of drama. A survivor of the race of life and getting back to the basic and simple ways of life without a complex personality, indomitable lady, Femina Indomabilis. Just a perspicacious, adventurous and persuade attitude and characteristics which were learned through her years of life's experiences. Lady who is satisfied with herself and where she is currently at in her life.

Innocent Delight is What He Took
When He Saw the Maiden By the Brook.
To Him It was His Secret Joy,
A Man to Be, A Curious Boy.

The Utmost His Desires Will Reach
Is But to Learn What Others Teach.
With Heated Passion of His Soul
On the Verge of Beyond Control,

He Holds the Desire of Secret Love,
Derived From the Wisdom of Those Above.
A Fire Celestial, Cleansed, Untried,
An Emotion Not To Be Denied.

No Quirk of Nature, Her Lovely Form,
Enough To Keep Him Sparked & Warm.
Copies of Her Have Many Inspired,
Her Virtues Many by Squires Desired.

All Vulgar Forms He Does Despise
And Holds No Secrets to Disguise.
His Heart Beats Quickly at Her Sight
And Raises His Yearning to Excite.

He Knows He's in Love, But With Whom?
To Have Her Know Would Spell His Doom.
Such is The Way Love Appears
For the Young To Belie Their Fears.

Cupid Aimed With His Absolute Dart
At His Head, But Hit His Heart.

my favorite outdoor activity

hiking and riding

where in the world i want to visit the most

Nepal,Kathmandu

best piece of advice i ever received

Make Your Word Your Bond trusting only what you see in life.
Self-realization means self-discovery in the highest sense of the term. One realizes one's oneness with God consciously. Now you have studied books and people have also told you that God is in everybody. But you have not realized God in your conscious life. When one is self-realized, one consciously knows what God is, what He looks like, what He wills. Those who have not realized God will say, "God may be like this, God may be like that" it is all mental speculation. But when one achieves self-realization, one remains in God's Consciousness and one speaks to God face-to-face. He sees God both in the finite and in the Infinite; he sees God as personal and impersonal. In this case, it is not mental hallucination or imagination; it is direct reality. This reality is more authentic than my seeing you right now in front of me.

the person who has most influenced my life

Parents and Grands
Who says you are wanting in faith? When you aspire, you have faith in God. When you desire, you have faith in yourself. When you deny the significance of your own existence, you have faith in the undivine. To be sure, you are always endowed with faith.
What you call Faith I call the Soul's foreknowledge of the Highest Truth. Faith tells the aspirant not only what God is but also what God can do for him at every moment. This faith is the aspirant's living breath in God the Omniscient and God the Omnipotent.
See through the eye of Faith. You will see the Eternal Truth. Feel through the heart of Faith. You will feel the Immortal Truth.

secret talents that i have

Musical, Instruments, no vocals, my dog howls when I sing, LOL

the most important aspect of my life at the moment

Relaxing with Family and friends
Peace. Peace is love unmistakably realized. Peace is joy unreservedly shared. Peace is oneness soulfully expanded. Peace is fullness permanently founded.

The animal consciousness is completely unaware of peace. The human consciousness is rarely aware of peace. The divine consciousness is constantly and lovingly aware of peace. The supreme Consciousness is constantly, lovingly and blessing fully aware of peace.

Peace is the inner man's inner goodness. Peace is the outer man's outer greatness.

Goodness proceeds. Goodness loves. Goodness serves. Goodness proceeds along Eternity's Road. Goodness loves God the Creator. Goodness serves God the creation.

Greatness succeeds. Greatness sings. Greatness dances. Greatness succeeds in the battlefield of life. Greatness sings the real victory-song. Greatness dances the real freedom-dance.

Goodness reveals God the Silence-Creator. Greatness fulfills God the sound-creation.

The inner peace and the outer peace are interdependent. The inner peace grows. The outer peace glows. The inner peace feeds. The outer peace leads. The inner peace grows with Infinity. The outer peace glows with Eternity. The inner peace feeds the divine in us. The outer peace leads the human in us.

The inner peace reveals God the transcendental Beauty. The outer peace fulfills God the universal Duty.

The inner peace constantly awakens us to a higher and supreme reality.

Peace. The nations that seek peace more than anything else are divinely excellent. The individuals who seek peace more than anything else are divinely excellent. The nations and the individuals that have peace, both inner and outer, are supremely perfect.

The outer world hungers for power. What else is power, if not peace? The outer world hungers for satisfaction. What else is satisfaction, if not peace? Peace-power illumines the earth-consciousness. Peace-satisfaction fulfills the Heaven-reality.

Man hungers for world-dominion. Man thinks that world-dominion will give him satisfaction. To his wide surprise, he finds that world-dominion is nothing short of sense-slavery. World-dominion is another name for shameless treachery. Not world-dominion, but world-union; not world-conquest, but truth-quest: this should be our aim.

Peace is self-mastery. Peace is God-discovery. The inner man who is fully awakened knows that self-mastery and God-discovery are of paramount importance. God-discovery is God's Satisfaction in man. Self-mastery is the perfection of man in God. Man's perfection in God and God's Satisfaction in man can change the face of today's world. Today's world can be transformed into God's Perfection-Dream, which is flooded with Light and Delight, only when we the seekers cry for peace-peace alone.

my ideal first date

Good Conversation in a Nice setting over coffee and cake

what i find least attractive

Disrespect, Rude and foul people
Anger is a great obstacle. The after-effect of anger is frustration and depression. We should take anger as a thief. Its very nature is to steal. We have love inside us and it is our treasure. If we allow anger, the thief, to enter into us, then it will immediately steal our inner treasure. When this happens we must immediately call the police. That is to say, when anger assails us we must cry inwardly for deep aspiration to come to the fore and chase away our anger. If we love someone, we cannot get angry; but for the time being we have lost our love. In order to regain our love, we have to call our aspiration-police to save our most precious love-treasure.

Again, when anger comes to us we have to feel that it is something that is breaking us. We have come into the world to build. If we build something, then only will the world appreciate and admire us. So we have to see which qualities build our nature. Love and peace build our real life; anger only destroys.

what i find most attractive

Respect with laughter and humor
Compassion is kindness unfathomable. Once a son of the great philosopher William James went to visit his uncle, the great writer Henry James. The uncle gave his nephew three pieces of advice that he felt would be of tremendous help to him: the first important thing in life is kindness; the second important thing in life is kindness; and the third important thing in life is kindness.
Compassion is at once the seed and fruit of self-education. And it is from self-education that we can offer our wisdom-light to mankind. Wisdom-light is a self-giving flame that slowly, steadily and unerringly grows into a God-becoming sun.

the funniest thing to ever happen to me

got locked in a department store at closing when using bathroom

my favorite vacation

Outer Banks, Pamlico Sounds, NC

what people notice about me first

Beard, eyes, humor

the most embarrasing thing to ever happen to me

My Bride was stolen at wedding reception

music, movies, tv shows that i like

Any music just no hard rap, music with a beat and good lyrics, older ones with plot and not too much violence and cussing, that keeps you interested to the end and sometimes leaves you hanging for the next movie, CSI, M.A.S.H>, Hogans Heroes, Animal Planet, Discovery and History Channels, Sport channel when football season is in.

if i could be doing anything today, i would be...

Relaxing fishing on the Chesapeake Bay Inlet or 30 Miles shelf fishing or just at local lake fishing.
Each dream is a creation. Each creation is either conscious aspiration or unconscious aspiration. Our aspiration enters into the desire-life, the little brother, and helps him clean his body, purify his mind and illumine his earthly existence. Each iota of aspiration also expedites the arrival of realization. Our aspiration enters into the realization-life or brings the realization-life into the aspiration-life in order to make the aspiration-life completely perfect for the awakening of our physical reality and for the blossoming of the soul-reality, which is within us and for us.
A dream is God's creation in the inner world. From the inner world we enter into the realization-world. Creation and dream, aspiration and realization-they are all members of the same family. If we can become aware of one, then automatically we can have the other three; for our dream is, after all, a disguised reality, and a disguised reality done not remain always in disguise. It purifies our mind. It offers dynamism to our vital and it offers an inner awakening in our physical reality.

things i need to be happy

gracious day or evening with no stress with family and friends unwinding with good conversation, drink, and food doing things we enjoy doing together, IE, board games, seeing a show, hiking, riding, watching the heavens, getting wet with the mist of the ocean's mist and toe tickling with sand between them, just plain ole simple fun and laughter.
Divine Harmony can be established in one's inner and outer nature only when one accepts the inner life as a source of constant inspiration for guiding, molding and shaping his outer life.

favorite quotes

"If you would not be forgotten, as soon as you are dead and rotten, either write things worth reading, or do things worth the writing." ~ B. Franklin

Peace. Peace is love unmistakably realized. Peace is joy unreservedly shared. Peace is oneness soulfully expanded. Peace is fullness permanently founded.

The animal consciousness is completely unaware of peace. The human consciousness is rarely aware of peace. The divine consciousness is constantly and lovingly aware of peace. The supreme Consciousness is constantly, lovingly and blessing fully aware of peace.

Peace is the inner man's inner goodness. Peace is the outer man's outer greatness.

Goodness proceeds. Goodness loves. Goodness serves. Goodness proceeds along Eternity's Road. Goodness loves God the Creator. Goodness serves God the creation.

Greatness succeeds. Greatness sings. Greatness dances. Greatness succeeds in the battlefield of life. Greatness sings the real victory-song. Greatness dances the real freedom-dance.

Goodness reveals God the Silence-Creator. Greatness fulfills God the sound-creation.

The inner peace and the outer peace are interdependent. The inner peace grows. The outer peace glows. The inner peace feeds. The outer peace leads. The inner peace grows with Infinity. The outer peace glows with Eternity. The inner peace feeds the divine in us. The outer peace leads the human in us.

The inner peace reveals God the transcendental Beauty. The outer peace fulfills God the universal Duty.

The inner peace constantly awakens us to a higher and supreme reality.

Peace. The nations that seek peace more than anything else are divinely excellent. The individuals who seek peace more than anything else are divinely excellent. The nations and the individuals that have peace, both inner and outer, are supremely perfect.

The outer world hungers for power. What else is power, if not peace? The outer world hungers for satisfaction. What else is satisfaction, if not peace? Peace-power illumines the earth-consciousness. Peace-satisfaction fulfills the Heaven-reality.

Man hungers for world-dominion. Man thinks that world-dominion will give him satisfaction. To his wide surprise, he finds that world-dominion is nothing short of sense-slavery. World-dominion is another name for shameless treachery. Not world-dominion, but world-union; not world-conquest, but truth-quest: this should be our aim.

Peace is self-mastery. Peace is God-discovery. The inner man who is fully awakened knows that self-mastery and God-discovery are of paramount importance. God-discovery is God's Satisfaction in man. Self-mastery is the perfection of man in God. Man's perfection in God and God's Satisfaction in man can change the face of today's world. Today's world can be transformed into God's Perfection-Dream, which is flooded with Light and Delight, only when we the seekers cry for peace-peace alone.

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